There are many pastors who visit the sick in hospitals and at home. Visitations require a delicate blend of empathy, tact, and faith.
If you choose to visit the sick, remember the rule: If you visit one, you must visit them all. As soon as you leave, the church network will alert others that the “pastor visited me,” creating jealousy that can develop in the aftermath.
There are a few other things to consider:
–Always call ahead before visiting a member at home.
— At the hospital, knock and wait for a response before entering; this gives the patient a chance to ready themselves for company.
–Once inside, shield them from unnecessary stress. Avoid forcing them to repeat the exhausting backstory of their hospitalization.
–Guard your tongue: Don’t talk about church problems and never, mention others who are sick or have died.
The visiting pastor should maintain a flow of encouraging words.
Control your expressions so you never appear shocked by their physical appearance or condition.
Do not be discouraged by a doctor’s negative prognosis. Experienced pastors have seen miracles, and terminal cases resolved by Dr. Jesus. Your role is to be a source of reassurance and robust faith.
Don’t worry about what to say. Don’t preach, just be present.
There is comfort sometimes in silence.
Keep your visit short, upbeat, and focused on their spiritual comfort.
Finally, the sick expect you to pray for them, even if they do not ask.
Close your brief stay with a short, personal prayer for God’s grace.
Grace covers everything, regardless of the outcome.
