Church life is changing, and so are the customs around women in ministry. Not many years ago, a woman standing in the pulpit was not widely accepted. Today, that picture is different. Doors are opening. Minds are shifting. Much of that change has come because wise women honored tradition while walking boldly in their calling. These simple tips reflect long-standing customs, not strict doctrine, and they can help keep order and respect in worship.
First, a visiting female minister should wait to be invited into the pulpit by the host pastor. Every church has its own way. It is always better to be invited up than to be asked down. Respect for leadership keeps peace in the service.
Second, many churches still expect a head covering, such as a scarf or hat. This is seen as a sign of humility and honor before God. It may not be required everywhere, but it is wise to be prepared.
Third, guest pastors should not invite a female minister into the pulpit on their own. That choice belongs to the host pastor. Each church may follow different traditions, and it is best not to assume.
Fourth, use care in attire. Flashy jewelry, long dangling earrings, and long, pencil-like fingernails may be stylish and enhance a woman’s beauty, but they may also be a distraction. In some places, the color red still carries a negative meaning tied to scripture. While times are changing, avoiding it can prevent distraction.
Finally, male ministers should stand when a female minister enters the pulpit. Simple respect still matters. It sends a message to men in the congregation about respecting women, both in and out of the pulpit.
Male pastors should remember Galatians 3:28, which reminds us that we are all one before God, neither male nor female.
When women follow the protocols, it makes it easier for some old diehards steeped in the old-school polity to adapt to the times.
Even if we differ in our interpretations of scripture, these and other pulpit protocols related to women in the pulpit show respect for women, and respect never goes out of style.
